How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 00:37

How does one succeed in life?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Do you like high heels?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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That's it for today.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Ask yourself:

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

When you have seven hours to kill, what should one do?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How would you feel about your husband allowing a mutual friend to see you naked and exposed to show off your pussy?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Does not procrastinate.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.